Kashish

How many of us have expectations in life?????  I guess almost everyone. We all have expectations from ourselves, family, friends etc. In any situation we can't just stop expecting. But then have you ever thought how much you have fulfilled others expectations...If not take few minutes and give it a thought. I myself had expectations from many people in my life from my family, my friends etc In fact at one point I had so many expectations that I totally became a negative person when all those were never fulfilled with only one thing left other than disappointment.At that stage one of my friend told me that the only reason for your disappointment is you expect a way too much from everyone.Then I finally realised how true it was and tried to overcome this and the difference I had for my life before and now has changed me so much.Now my perception towards life has totally changed. It doesn't mean I don't have expectations in life.... I do have expectations but the only one

Such a beautiful feeling, emotion, expression to be felt isn't it? Some relationships are god gifted like the relationship with our parents,brother sister they are blessed relationships. Some we choose for ourselves like our friends. However t he Start of those are but are as good as flowers which blossoms so beautifully. For some relationships starts and ends with partners but it's not the reality of life. Relationships are the most meaningful elements of life which provides a source of deep fulfilment. Relationships are those flowers which need to be nurtured everyday to have a fruitful life. With time some relationships grow stronger and stronger. Life without relationships are meaningless to live in. "A healthy relationship  doesn't  drag you down. It inspires you to be better". Some relationships piss you off, annoy you and get bitter with time but then at that point of time calm yourself and think once that if you allow this negative feeling over yo

The most special day of almost everyone would be their birthday. Birthday for many of us brings bunch of surprises. Lots of gifts blessings from your elders. It's that special day where we have the rights to make our dear ones agree with us. It is an event of rejoicing. Now celebrating birthday has become so trendy when compared to prior days wherein birthdays were so simple and many of them never used to celebrate it. There's nothing wrong in celebrating birthday. Especially friend's, boyfriend/girlfriend make it so special for each other with lot of surprises. If anyone could remember birthdays of our childhood days where everything was selected by our mom and after we are back from school our favourite food was served, friends behind you all through the day for chocolate's and you becoming the centre of attraction all around on that day. No birthday's can replace those.Such colourful and lively birthdays were they indeed. Now most of us think it is a bo

Time or Money? Such a big dilemma, isn’t it Every day we make decisions about should we choose money over time or time over money. Probably and practically people give priority to money over time may be due to circumstances allowing them to do so. Through lot of surveys it is prov en that people who choose money over time are more financially constrained and therefore less happy. Yes, money is an important key factor but time is a precious key factor.  Time is priceless  Once the time flies it never comes back again. But why always listen to your brain, feel your heartbeat. “Time can’t be quantified but the value of money can be quantified easily”. I know with time people have adopted themselves so that they can earn most of the money so that you have a secure life but while accomplishing this task you move away from your near and dear ones and hence miss out the precious time with them.  There are even families wherein members off the same family don’t even have ti

Failure - It is one of the most dangerous word we all fear of. In this competitive world failure is d most dangerous and common thing which most of us have been through at any and many stages of our life. Fear of failure is so much in people that sometimes to just protect themselves from this they take wrong measures. But why should some one fear of failure why can't we just take it in a positive way. When u know at some point you have to face this why can't u just make up your mind accordingly. Actual meaning of failure is learning a new lesson. Actual failure is when u stop trying. I know it's hard to start again after failing but it's not  harder enough  it's only that you need to be prepared. Most of us when we were kids we had so many hobbies like cycling but while learning it you fall so many times but still you get up and start again you know why because you have a passion to learn it at any cost. Just take the up s n down s of life also d same way an

True essence of life is the inner happiness. I believe true happiness is in loving, caring, sharing. We are living in a society where in we have competition in all sort of things be it from studies to being it to achieving something big in our life. But in this we build ourselves with lot of negative emotions such as jealousy, anger etc.... Why can't we start being a part of others happiness and build up ourselves into a positive  person rather than believing in competition and experiencing a negative emotion.In doing this may be they could also be a part of ours and may be you would win one more person in your life. The true essence of life is not being perfect or trying to impress others or achieving everything in life. The real essence is in enjoying with people around playing with them, falling and learning from your mistakes. "Start  feeling rather than thinking" If u succeed in bringing a smile on someone s face that is the true essence of your life. "

Life is a game of balance. Once u lost control over it everything s just shattered. It's all about keeping a balance meaning being in limits or maintaining it.This is how we have been raised and how we have seen all through our life's.   But y keep a balance on ur emotions. Though people are developing with time but still there are families where in Even today girls are advised "Aise mat baito" "Aise mat haso". Be it through talking, body language,etc ........Why???  Aren't they human being s are they grabbing your rights or something that they are supposed to be so they also have emotions and you give them a single chance to unlatch the cage and let them fly, express it u would see an another beautiful and even more happier person in them. The more you express the more you feel connected,especially to your dear ones. Sharing feelings builds up your relationships. There are situations when u actually feel like laughing or some other emotion but u