Kashish

Addiction -This word sounds different for each and every individual. For some it is serious and for some it's not much. Addiction is not simply a weakness, it does not mean someone is bad person.People from all backwards (poor/rich) can get an addiction.Addiction can happen to anyone and at any age, but the chance s are higher when a person starts drug use when they're young. I was going through a video Where in a 13 year old boy ran away from his house, parents and came to another city and got addicted to drugs. He is so badly addicted to drugs that most of the portion of his earnings goes to drugs and hardly some for his food. When asked him about going back to family he completely denied saying he won't be allowed to take drugs if he goes back and so he doesn't want to. A 13 year old boy is putting himself towards darkness without realizing that he would die if he doesn't stop.It is not only about this boy but there are lot of other people from different ages

Diwali -The most widely celebrated festival in India,Festival of lights,Festival of happiness,Festival of being together and what not where we greet our near and dear ones. This festival is a symbol of victory of light over darkness, good over evil, knowledge over ignorance, and hope over despair.Its celebration includes millions of lights shining on housetops, outside doors and windows, around temples and other buildings in the communities and countries where it is observed. This is a festival where we spread happiness but I observed one thing this Diwali was a widow is not supposed to go to anyone s house during Diwali n it's not only Diwali but also during any other occasions like marraige etc I know with time lot of people have changed and no one really believes in all this but even today there are families where in all this is followed. I just felt so helpless with in myself that I couldn't do anything for this. But then if a man's wife passes away he can go an

Life is a mixture of success and failure s. There are times when you continuously fail after working so hard due to your weakness. Of course no one enjoys feeling weak. Most of us try to hide it thinking people in and around might get a chance to make fun of it. And the most silliest thing we do in any interviews when asked about our weaknesses is we try to put them as our strength's. Sometimes we try to overcome our weaknesses by trying hard so that it never remains weakness. But for a change have you ever thougt of laughing at your own weakness before any one else could laugh at it.... Of course most of us would have felt very bad and would have got frustrated when others made fun of you,point out on your weakness. Try laughing at your own failure's, make fun of your mistakes. Sit with the people who used to make fun of yours and start making fun of yourself, I know this might sound weird, but just try once at the end if it results will be in your favor. It ll put

Family -This word just completes us. Family where life begins and live never ends. Family is just the best part of almost everyone s life where we love, share, play, laugh, fight and live. Family is like branches on a tree, we all grow in different directions, yet our roots remain as one. No matter however bad day we have had at the end of it when you are with family you just forget everything, God's special and best creation indeed. The one who gets the love of a family gets the greatest blessing. I know with time the definition of family has changed, but then in whatever way the definition change s family is always a family.  No matter how many ever difference s you have when you are with your siblings, parents you just cherish those beautiful time together. We face so many up's and down's in our life, most of them stay away from family,but then whenever you feel low or when you are stuck somewhere in life it's only the family who's there for you. Family h

How many of us have expectations in life?????  I guess almost everyone. We all have expectations from ourselves, family, friends etc. In any situation we can't just stop expecting. But then have you ever thought how much you have fulfilled others expectations...If not take few minutes and give it a thought. I myself had expectations from many people in my life from my family, my friends etc In fact at one point I had so many expectations that I totally became a negative person when all those were never fulfilled with only one thing left other than disappointment.At that stage one of my friend told me that the only reason for your disappointment is you expect a way too much from everyone.Then I finally realised how true it was and tried to overcome this and the difference I had for my life before and now has changed me so much.Now my perception towards life has totally changed. It doesn't mean I don't have expectations in life.... I do have expectations but the only one

Such a beautiful feeling, emotion, expression to be felt isn't it? Some relationships are god gifted like the relationship with our parents,brother sister they are blessed relationships. Some we choose for ourselves like our friends. However t he Start of those are but are as good as flowers which blossoms so beautifully. For some relationships starts and ends with partners but it's not the reality of life. Relationships are the most meaningful elements of life which provides a source of deep fulfilment. Relationships are those flowers which need to be nurtured everyday to have a fruitful life. With time some relationships grow stronger and stronger. Life without relationships are meaningless to live in. "A healthy relationship  doesn't  drag you down. It inspires you to be better". Some relationships piss you off, annoy you and get bitter with time but then at that point of time calm yourself and think once that if you allow this negative feeling over yo

The most special day of almost everyone would be their birthday. Birthday for many of us brings bunch of surprises. Lots of gifts blessings from your elders. It's that special day where we have the rights to make our dear ones agree with us. It is an event of rejoicing. Now celebrating birthday has become so trendy when compared to prior days wherein birthdays were so simple and many of them never used to celebrate it. There's nothing wrong in celebrating birthday. Especially friend's, boyfriend/girlfriend make it so special for each other with lot of surprises. If anyone could remember birthdays of our childhood days where everything was selected by our mom and after we are back from school our favourite food was served, friends behind you all through the day for chocolate's and you becoming the centre of attraction all around on that day. No birthday's can replace those.Such colourful and lively birthdays were they indeed. Now most of us think it is a bo

Time or Money? Such a big dilemma, isn’t it Every day we make decisions about should we choose money over time or time over money. Probably and practically people give priority to money over time may be due to circumstances allowing them to do so. Through lot of surveys it is prov en that people who choose money over time are more financially constrained and therefore less happy. Yes, money is an important key factor but time is a precious key factor.  Time is priceless  Once the time flies it never comes back again. But why always listen to your brain, feel your heartbeat. “Time can’t be quantified but the value of money can be quantified easily”. I know with time people have adopted themselves so that they can earn most of the money so that you have a secure life but while accomplishing this task you move away from your near and dear ones and hence miss out the precious time with them.  There are even families wherein members off the same family don’t even have ti

Failure - It is one of the most dangerous word we all fear of. In this competitive world failure is d most dangerous and common thing which most of us have been through at any and many stages of our life. Fear of failure is so much in people that sometimes to just protect themselves from this they take wrong measures. But why should some one fear of failure why can't we just take it in a positive way. When u know at some point you have to face this why can't u just make up your mind accordingly. Actual meaning of failure is learning a new lesson. Actual failure is when u stop trying. I know it's hard to start again after failing but it's not  harder enough  it's only that you need to be prepared. Most of us when we were kids we had so many hobbies like cycling but while learning it you fall so many times but still you get up and start again you know why because you have a passion to learn it at any cost. Just take the up s n down s of life also d same way an

True essence of life is the inner happiness. I believe true happiness is in loving, caring, sharing. We are living in a society where in we have competition in all sort of things be it from studies to being it to achieving something big in our life. But in this we build ourselves with lot of negative emotions such as jealousy, anger etc.... Why can't we start being a part of others happiness and build up ourselves into a positive  person rather than believing in competition and experiencing a negative emotion.In doing this may be they could also be a part of ours and may be you would win one more person in your life. The true essence of life is not being perfect or trying to impress others or achieving everything in life. The real essence is in enjoying with people around playing with them, falling and learning from your mistakes. "Start  feeling rather than thinking" If u succeed in bringing a smile on someone s face that is the true essence of your life. "

Life is a game of balance. Once u lost control over it everything s just shattered. It's all about keeping a balance meaning being in limits or maintaining it.This is how we have been raised and how we have seen all through our life's.   But y keep a balance on ur emotions. Though people are developing with time but still there are families where in Even today girls are advised "Aise mat baito" "Aise mat haso". Be it through talking, body language,etc ........Why???  Aren't they human being s are they grabbing your rights or something that they are supposed to be so they also have emotions and you give them a single chance to unlatch the cage and let them fly, express it u would see an another beautiful and even more happier person in them. The more you express the more you feel connected,especially to your dear ones. Sharing feelings builds up your relationships. There are situations when u actually feel like laughing or some other emotion but u

True friendship multiplies the good in life and divides its evils. Strive to have friends, for life without friends is like life on a desert island... to find one real friend in a lifetime is good fortune; to keep him is a blessing. As Friendship Day is nearing I was just thinking about all the best people I hv met from my childhood  days and from the time . With time names changed people changed but the meaning of "Friendship" remains the same and with every growing step of life you all made my life full of happiness.Friends are the most valuable antiques.Friends are those who give us hope in our tough time when even our family is not supportive. Friends are those who can enjoy every bit of thing about u. I hv realized what friendship means and thought of giving them a title for being the best people in my life and making my life a bit easier in different  stages  of life. Keerthi:My cycling partner. Poonamkumari:My silence partner. Poornima:My story listening partne

Kisine kaha hai dosti ka haath aage badane mein koi burai nahi hai .... But woh shayad yeh bolna bhulgaye ki dosti ka haath bhi unki taraf hi badao jo sahi mein uske hakdaar ho. Aaj kal har koi apni ek alag pehchan banata hai.Bahar se kuch aur aur andar kuch aur. Shayad zamana hi aisa ho gaya hai ki yeh zaroori ho gaya hai. Jo insaan har jagah ek jaisa ho usse koi samaj nahi sakta.Woh waqt ke saath apne pehlu badalte hai aur woh zaroori bhi hogaya hai. Par aise jeene ka kya matlab jaha aap bahar logo ko dikhane ke liye ek jaise aur apno ke beech ek jaise agar bahar badi badi baatein karte ho aur andar se khokle ho toh koi matlab nahi banta.Har baar ek jaise rehne ki koshish karke dekho zindagi bohut khoobsurat lagegi shayad zindagi thodi aasan hojaye...    

Marriage such a big question to parents children etc. Finding the best soulmate is the big question. Parents always wants their children to have a secure life and indeed they search from looks to being rich etc I have observed someone very close to me who was forced to marry a guy because he could afford a secure life for her but in this they failed to see that they couldn't afford a happy life for her.Today when I see her I see the reel smile which is shown as a real smile. He succeeded as a husband and failed as a friend. Every girls would want a prince charming ya true but more than that she would want a friend in a husband rather than having a secure life a girl would want a happy life.She doesn't want someone who could give her expensive jewellery without a smile she wants someone who could give her a small hair clip also but with a hug.She would want someone with whom she could enjoy even a kulfi.She would want someone with whom walking beside him with those stupi

My day started like any other day.As it was monday I go to temple every Monday with my sister as she believes a lot and even me .we got ready and as we were suppose to leave my naughty Angel "Dallu" came who is actually my neighbour and she started like mujhe bhi aana hai warna mein jaane nahi dungi the baccha atyachar . Then finally she joined us and while we were going on our way she started speaking so much to herself I never had seen a 3 yr kid talk so much non stop she is. Suddenly she started showing some apartment s and was telling like yeh mera ghar hai and all and I was listening to her talks because I was enjoying it . I don know why but I have that special feelings for kids and to this cutie thoda zyada hi. Her talks continued and I was also enjoying . Finally we reached the temple and the happiness I saw on her face when we entered the temple was flawless. Though most of us go usually to temple I have never seen myself or some one else so happy. And the pooja s

Life is a beautiful journey. It always gives us a mixture of all emotions. With every new day we learn some sweet and some bitter lessons. We all have bad days and then with time we stop enjoying life and start living life to meet our day to day requirements. In today's busy world we have stopped enjoying the pretty little things which used to make us so happy. That walk from school to bus stand with our friends wherein we used to talk all stupid talks but still at the end of it we used to have stomach ache s because of such talks which made us to laugh so much ending up with stomach pain. As we grow up we start leaving those beautiful moments and start living a kind off life which is just full of being social and being a show off.Remember those college days where we used to sit in d last bench and keep an eye always on d watch just to check when would this boring lecture get over though in between we used to use the last page of our books for those endless conversation with a m