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Addiction

Addiction -This word sounds different for each and every individual. For some it is serious and for some it's not much. Addiction is not simply a weakness, it does not mean someone is bad person.People from all backwards (poor/rich) can get an addiction.Addiction can happen to anyone and at any age, but the chance s are higher when a person starts drug use when they're young. I was going through a video Where in a 13 year old boy ran away from his house, parents and came to another city and got addicted to drugs. He is so badly addicted to drugs that most of the portion of his earnings goes to drugs and hardly some for his food. When asked him about going back to family he completely denied saying he won't be allowed to take drugs if he goes back and so he doesn't want to. A 13 year old boy is putting himself towards darkness without realizing that he would die if he doesn't stop.It is not only about this boy but there are lot of other people from different ages...

The Real Diwali

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Diwali -The most widely celebrated festival in India,Festival of lights,Festival of happiness,Festival of being together and what not where we greet our near and dear ones. This festival is a symbol of victory of light over darkness, good over evil, knowledge over ignorance, and hope over despair.Its celebration includes millions of lights shining on housetops, outside doors and windows, around temples and other buildings in the communities and countries where it is observed. This is a festival where we spread happiness but I observed one thing this Diwali was a widow is not supposed to go to anyone s house during Diwali n it's not only Diwali but also during any other occasions like marraige etc I know with time lot of people have changed and no one really believes in all this but even today there are families where in all this is followed. I just felt so helpless with in myself that I couldn't do anything for this. But then if a man's wife passes away he can go an...

Weakness

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Life is a mixture of success and failure s. There are times when you continuously fail after working so hard due to your weakness. Of course no one enjoys feeling weak. Most of us try to hide it thinking people in and around might get a chance to make fun of it. And the most silliest thing we do in any interviews when asked about our weaknesses is we try to put them as our strength's. Sometimes we try to overcome our weaknesses by trying hard so that it never remains weakness. But for a change have you ever thougt of laughing at your own weakness before any one else could laugh at it.... Of course most of us would have felt very bad and would have got frustrated when others made fun of you,point out on your weakness. Try laughing at your own failure's, make fun of your mistakes. Sit with the people who used to make fun of yours and start making fun of yourself, I know this might sound weird, but just try once at the end if it results will be in your favor. It ll put...

FAMILY

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Family -This word just completes us. Family where life begins and live never ends. Family is just the best part of almost everyone s life where we love, share, play, laugh, fight and live. Family is like branches on a tree, we all grow in different directions, yet our roots remain as one. No matter however bad day we have had at the end of it when you are with family you just forget everything, God's special and best creation indeed. The one who gets the love of a family gets the greatest blessing. I know with time the definition of family has changed, but then in whatever way the definition change s family is always a family.  No matter how many ever difference s you have when you are with your siblings, parents you just cherish those beautiful time together. We face so many up's and down's in our life, most of them stay away from family,but then whenever you feel low or when you are stuck somewhere in life it's only the family who's there for you. Family h...

Expectations

How many of us have expectations in life?????  I guess almost everyone. We all have expectations from ourselves, family, friends etc. In any situation we can't just stop expecting. But then have you ever thought how much you have fulfilled others expectations...If not take few minutes and give it a thought. I myself had expectations from many people in my life from my family, my friends etc In fact at one point I had so many expectations that I totally became a negative person when all those were never fulfilled with only one thing left other than disappointment.At that stage one of my friend told me that the only reason for your disappointment is you expect a way too much from everyone.Then I finally realised how true it was and tried to overcome this and the difference I had for my life before and now has changed me so much.Now my perception towards life has totally changed. It doesn't mean I don't have expectations in life.... I do have expectations but the only one...

Relationships

Such a beautiful feeling, emotion, expression to be felt isn't it? Some relationships are god gifted like the relationship with our parents,brother sister they are blessed relationships. Some we choose for ourselves like our friends. However t he Start of those are but are as good as flowers which blossoms so beautifully. For some relationships starts and ends with partners but it's not the reality of life. Relationships are the most meaningful elements of life which provides a source of deep fulfilment. Relationships are those flowers which need to be nurtured everyday to have a fruitful life. With time some relationships grow stronger and stronger. Life without relationships are meaningless to live in. "A healthy relationship  doesn't  drag you down. It inspires you to be better". Some relationships piss you off, annoy you and get bitter with time but then at that point of time calm yourself and think once that if you allow this negative feeling over yo...

Birthday

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The most special day of almost everyone would be their birthday. Birthday for many of us brings bunch of surprises. Lots of gifts blessings from your elders. It's that special day where we have the rights to make our dear ones agree with us. It is an event of rejoicing. Now celebrating birthday has become so trendy when compared to prior days wherein birthdays were so simple and many of them never used to celebrate it. There's nothing wrong in celebrating birthday. Especially friend's, boyfriend/girlfriend make it so special for each other with lot of surprises. If anyone could remember birthdays of our childhood days where everything was selected by our mom and after we are back from school our favourite food was served, friends behind you all through the day for chocolate's and you becoming the centre of attraction all around on that day. No birthday's can replace those.Such colourful and lively birthdays were they indeed. Now most of us think it is a bo...